True Friend

"A friend hears what you say when you are sad, but a TRUE friend doesn't has to know what you say, because they know what you going to say, and how you are feeling." Well, sometimes i just wondering why some people must link a true friend (or close friend) as somebody that you love. Maybe there is love exists, but the love comes from a true friendship, and not relationship. I don't actually care about that since i won't think in that kind of childish and immature way, but it really hurts for another party, especially when the close friend of a guy is a girl. I mean, whats wrong if a guy has a close friend of opposite gender? Must they use some kind of contempt-look to view that pure relationship? This is what i usually call disabled-person. Not in any body parts of theirs, but the disabled part is deep buried in their heart. Unless they open their mind and think properly what are the differences between a true friend and couple, otherwise they will be locked in their own opinion and guess what? they will NEVER grow. Personally, i do have some experience about this. There is a girl, where we can considered close enough to chat about some of our problems. Now here comes the rumours and everything starts to be different. We chat lesser, keep distance, limited topic to talk about. I guess these effects are strong enough to shake our friendship, no thanks to the words from conservative-thinking people. This girl changes me from the perspective of how i can be a better person, how i can change my attitude and how i can communicate with other people as well as do things in a right way. These are essential for me as i am trying so hard to become a man who are tough in work and soft in love. I love the girl i am loving now and that is good but i just want to be a better man. From now on, those who are trying to screw up whatever I think is non of their business, I........will keep silence. Say nothing.